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What Is Sexual Wellness? What It Means and How to Support It
Sexual wellness is not measured by how often you have sex, whether you have a partner or whether you orgasm. It is a broad part of wellbeing that includes accurate information, autonomy, consent, safety, comfort, communication, pleasure when desired and access to appropriate healthcare.
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STI Testing: What Tests Check, When to Test and What to Expect
STI testing is not one universal test. Depending on the infection and exposure, a service may use urine, blood or swabs from the vagina, cervix, throat, rectum or another site. Testing too soon after exposure can miss some infections, so timing and repeat testing may matter.
How Do You Get Chlamydia? Symptoms, Testing, Treatment and Partner Care
Chlamydia is a common bacterial STI that is curable with appropriate antibiotics. It often causes no symptoms, so testing is important after relevant exposure or under screening recommendations. Untreated infection can cause complications, particularly in the reproductive tract.
Gonorrhoea (Gonorrhea): Symptoms, Testing, Treatment and Antibiotic Resistance
Gonorrhoea is a bacterial STI that can infect the genitals, rectum and throat. It is curable with the correct antibiotic treatment, but antimicrobial resistance is an important global problem, so treatment should follow current clinical guidance rather than old prescriptions or leftover antibiotics.
Syphilis Symptoms: Stages, Testing, Treatment and Reinfection
Syphilis is a bacterial STI caused by Treponema pallidum. It is curable with appropriate antibiotics, but untreated infection can progress through stages and eventually affect the nervous system, eyes, ears, heart and other organs. Pregnancy requires particularly prompt testing and treatment because syphilis can be transmitted to the fetus.
Genital Herpes Symptoms, Testing, Outbreaks and Transmission
Genital herpes is a lifelong viral infection caused by herpes simplex virus type 1 or type 2. Many people have no symptoms or only mild symptoms. Antiviral medicines can shorten or prevent outbreaks and daily suppressive treatment can reduce transmission risk, but there is currently no treatment that removes latent herpes virus from the body.
HPV Symptoms, Transmission, Vaccination and Genital Warts
Human papillomavirus is a large group of viruses spread mainly through intimate skin-to-skin and sexual contact. Most infections cause no symptoms and clear or become undetectable without treatment, but persistent infection with certain types can cause cancers while other types can cause genital warts.
Trichomoniasis Symptoms, Testing, Treatment and Reinfection
Trichomoniasis, often called “trich,” is a common curable STI caused by the parasite Trichomonas vaginalis. Most people do not have symptoms, and symptoms alone cannot confirm the diagnosis. Treatment is with prescription oral medication, and partners need coordinated care to reduce reinfection.
How to Put On a Condom: Correct Use, Protection and Common Mistakes
Condoms create a physical barrier that reduces pregnancy risk and exposure to many sexually transmitted infections. They work best when a new condom is used correctly from start to finish for each act and with lubricant that is compatible with the condom material.
Types of Birth Control: How to Compare Contraception Options
The best contraceptive method is not the same for everyone. Methods differ in effectiveness, how often you need to remember them, side effects, bleeding changes, hormones, reversibility, access and medical suitability. Most do not prevent STIs.
Emergency Contraception: Options, Timing and What to Do Next
Emergency contraception can reduce the chance of pregnancy after sex without contraception or after a contraceptive failure. Options include emergency contraceptive pills and, for eligible people, a copper IUD. The sooner advice is sought, the more options may be available.
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Possible HIV exposure in the last 72 hours
PEP can prevent infection but must start quickly. Contact an urgent or sexual-health service the same day.
Pregnancy concern after unprotected sex
Emergency contraception works best the sooner it is taken. A pharmacy or clinic can advise today.
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